What makes sex dolls so special? Unlike most masturbators, dolls provide a complete sensory experience. This creates an intimate emotional connection and companionship which can’t be replicated in other adult toys. Dolls come as close as possible to the real thing in that it mimics having a partner, and helps to achieve intense orgasms!
Before purchasing your first sex doll, it’s important to do your research and due diligence to make sure you’re getting what you want. You can check out our [anchor:”Sex Doll FAQ page” – link to FAQs] to learn more about what’s available to get a better understanding of your wants and needs in a sex doll.
Also, keep in mind that dolls do require some prep work before their first use. We’ve previously written about [anchor:”maintaining sex dolls” – link to maintenance article] that goes into more detail about how to get ready for your maiden voyage
Now that you’re ready to get started, let’s go over some of the best positions to try out!
Bent Over
Difficulty Level – Beginner
This is a real classic! To achieve this, simply bend your doll over, and enter from behind. Holding her from behind, you can have her kneel or lay over a bed, table, chair, or even a kitchen counter if you’re feeling bold. Ensure the doll’s upper body is supported with the rear end raised, allowing for easy penetration into whichever hole you fancy. High heels can also be worn to add to her appeal, as well as balance out any height differences.
Advantages
· Can be done indoors or outside – the world is your oyster!
· Depending on what you’re bending her over, you can further personalize the experience. Play around with using pillows or other soft objects to test out new angles!
Disadvantages
· Over time, prolonged chafing on the knees and elbows can cause scratching or tearing, so you’ll want to be mindful. Keep in mind that knee and elbow pads can be used to help prevent this from happening.
· You’ll need to ensure the surface is soft enough to avoid damaging the doll.
Back Standing
Difficulty Level – Intermediate
In this position, you place the doll against the wall (breasts towards the wall, back towards you), and penetrate from behind. This position requires you to embrace your love doll, which can be very intimate for many.
A corner is the best place to try this, as it provides more support for the doll. Remember – they’re heavy! Having the extra stability allows you to focus on your performance, as opposed to keeping the doll upright. It’s best to raise the dolls arms up against the wall to assist with balancing. For deeper penetration, you can also raise up one leg.
Advantages
· Great for the adventurous! You can take your play to all new places, such as the shower, balcony, living room, or wherever your heart desires!
· Suitable for deep penetration.
Disadvantages
· If there’s a significant height difference, it may be challenging. If the doll is shorter, high heels can help level out the difference. If the doll is taller, you can spread the legs wider apart.
Spooning
Difficulty Level – Beginner
Spooning is one of the most intimate positions of all time. If instead of sex, you’re looking to make love, this is the perfect position for you! Simply roll your doll to her side and adjust her arms to bend forward to keep her from rolling onto her belly. You can then bend her legs at a 45-degree angle to support the lower body. From there, slightly lift her leg up and insert into your chosen hole. This is a very natural and familiar method of insertion.
Advantages
· Great for heavier dolls, since the bed and doll’s skeleton support the weight for you.
· Great for body warmth! Being close and having the skin-to-skin contact is incredibly intimate, and creates a more realistic experience.
Disadvantages
· She’s too pretty to look at, so you have to do her from behind ��
· You can’t look into her eyes or kiss her mouth – but that doesn’t prevent you from kissing down her neck and back!
Doggy Style
Difficulty Level – Beginner
Woof, woof – did someone call for animal control?! It’s time to get wild! Getting it on doggy style isn’t hard to do, and it’s rewarding! Simply have your doll on their elbows and knees, and spread the legs out slightly to help with balance. You then enter from behind and do your thing. In this position, it’s a bit easier to get rough and partake in a bit of spanking! This isn’t where you come looking for love, but pure, unadulterated lust!
Advantages
· Deep penetration
· Easy rhythm control
· Easier to maintain balance
Disadvantages
· Could cause injuries to the doll’s elbows and knees – again, this can be prevented by using knee and elbow pads designed for roller blading and the like, so you can go many more rounds!
· Less intimate than other positions, although this wouldn’t be a disadvantage to all
Cowgirl (and Reverse Cowgirl)
Difficulty – Intermediate
This is the position if you’re looking to be comfortable. You just lie back, sit your doll up on top, and get going. If your doll has a thrusting mechanism, you’re really in for a treat, my friend!
Advantages
· The doll’s weight can provide a more realistic experience
· The added weight helps provide more stimulation
Disadvantages
· The doll can be more difficult to move and get set up due to the weight (but once you’re in, it’s golden!)
Missionary
Difficulty Level – Beginner
Well, aren’t you quite the romantic? This position is intimate yet flirtatious, which is why it’s been around since ancient times! Many couples adopt this position, as it allows for a lot of stimulation, contact, and allows you to look into each other’s eyes and kiss. To do this, gently lay your doll back; maybe even prop her head up on a pillow, and spread the legs to 45-degrees apart. Alternatively, you can place their legs on your shoulders.
Advantages
· You can place the doll wherever you’d like with less limitations
· Your love doll can easily be moved around
· Compared to other positions, this is one of the more intimate, allowing you to feel closer to your new companion
Disadvantages
· If you’ve ever been married, you know the full vanilla can get a bit boring and monotonous. That’s why we’d recommend trying out a variety to keep things interesting!
Okay, we’ve covered some of the most popular sex positions, and how to accomplish them with your doll! Here’s a pro tip for you – watch some porn either with dolls or couples to get an idea of the new positions you’d like to try! This can add a new dimension to your experience, and help to establish a loving, caring bond between you and your doll. Which of these have you tried, or are you most interested in? We’d love to hear more about how you like to use your dolls!
